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Tuesday, July 8, 2008

A Family That Prays Together Stays Together

A Family that Prays together........

As a people, aren’t we grateful that family prayer is not an out-of-date practice with us? There is not a more beautiful sight in all this world than to see a family praying together. There is real meaning behind the oft-quoted adage: “The family that prays together stays together.” The Lord directed that we have family prayer when He said: “Pray in your families unto the Father, always in my name, that your wives and your children may be blessed.” (3 Ne. 18:21.)

I am not sure if I truly ever knew the truthfulness of that statement. For a few weeks, Owen didn't want to pray with us even thought before that, he was doing really good. He was always eager to say prayers even though it mostly comprised of being thankful for his toys. But somehow, something happened and made him very "uncooperative" when its time to pray. He came up with silly excuses like: "I'm too tired. I'm too sleepy." Or sometimes, he would even resort to throwing fits. But these last couple of weeks, something changed again - almost like a small miracle that I was able to witness in front of my very eyes. Ever since we noticed how uncooperative he had become, we realized that we, as his parents, were mostly at fault. After all, it was our job to teach how to pray. We had not been good examples. We had broken that consistency of saying family prayers together when we were busy doing different things. But as soon as we learned to realize our mistake, and swallowed our pride, things started changing for the better.

Last night, we had another family home evening, and we had tons of fun again! Before I left for work, Owen came into our room and climbed into bed. I told him that it was the night for Family Home Evening again. He got excited, and remembered the game we played the previous week. His excitement made me happy and excited too! I looked forward to getting home from work as soon as possible and when I got home, we had dinner, turned off the t.v. and then we had our Family Home Evening. We had fun again!

When it was time to pray, Owen gladly said the prayer. Even when it's someone's turn, as soon as Michelle and I would start, he'd start saying: "Thank you for my toys." Of course....how can you not be thankful for your toys, right?

I guess I am just glad that we have been getting better. It does make a big difference to pray together. I feel like we are on the right track. I know there are still many things that we need to be better at, but this is a good start.

I want to end with this quote: "Let us not neglect our family prayers. That old saying is yet true: “The family that prays together stays together.” By providing an example of prayer to our children, we will also be helping them to begin their own deep foundations of faith and testimonies which they will need throughout their lives." How Firm a Foundation, Thomas S. Monson.

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Cluffs, Jex's and Filios

CALIFORNIA ADVENTURE

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June 2008

Family Pic Christmas 2006

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Cluff residence-Alpine, UT

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Christmas 2006-Alpine, Utah

Hiking together as a family

Hiking together as a family
Valdez, Alaska June 2007

Michelle & Vinci

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Seward, Alaska 2007

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Wedding Photo with family & friends
June 2004 - Salt Lake City

Salt Lake Temple

Salt Lake Temple
Wedding Day - June 2004

Water is too cold for me

Water is too cold for me
Owen - Lake tahoe

Lake tahoe

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Bungee Falling
Pac NW Hwy - Amboy, Wa June 2007

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Making it to the finish line!
Mayor's Midnight Marathon-Alaska June 2007

We did it!!

We did it!!
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Vinci's First Race-Half Marathon

Vinci's First Race-Half Marathon
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freefalling @ 120 mph

freefalling @ 120 mph
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Falling in style
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Family Activity - Parasailing
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Owen and daddy

Owen and daddy
Lake Tahoe - July 2007

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Vinci's dad peeing in public
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Car Crash February 8, 2008

Car Crash February 8, 2008
Bye Bye Mommy's car

Slow down! Icy Road Conditions!

The picture above shows what happened to the car after I got into car crash on my way to work. I left at 6 a.m. hoping to beat rush hour traffic not thinking about the bad road conditions. I haven't gone to work for a couple of days and I know I needed to get back in the office. it was about 3 miles from my house where I was driving over an icy bridge and I lost control of the car. I don't remember much from what happened other than the fact that I tried to gain control of the car as I was swerving left and right and I missed one car, but another car headed towards me from the opposite direction hit me right on and I spun around. It all happened really fast! I remember checking to make sure I could feel my feet. And then I called 911. A police officer was there within minutes. The trip to the hospital was unbearable even though they hit me with morphine! I laid on that stretcher in the emergency room for hours because they wouldn't move me until all the x rays and scans were completed and evaluated. It was a pretty uncomfortable 5 hours! But I got out of it okay without any major injuries - just a few bruises here and there. I was glad! I am grateful that my life did not end then! I had a few thoughts go through my head as I hit that truck. One thing was: "Did I buy enough life insurance to sustain my family? and "Am I ready to go?" Sadly, the answer to both questions were no. And it makes me realize how short and unpredictable this life is. I really want to be a better person, to really cherish every single minute I have with my family. I love my wife and my son, and the rest of my family, but to go through an experience when it seemed like everything was to be stripped of you, it really opens your eyes to a better perspective of what is truly important in life.

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